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Why Am I So Tired? The Hidden Reasons Women Feel Exhausted
Melanie Gray Ph.D, RN Melanie Gray Ph.D, RN

Why Am I So Tired? The Hidden Reasons Women Feel Exhausted

Introduction

If you’ve found yourself asking, “Why am I so tired?” more times than you can count, you’re not alone. Millions of women type those exact words into Google every month—searching for answers that often feel just out of reach. Fatigue isn’t always about “doing too much.” Sometimes, it’s your body’s way of waving a white flag and begging you to listen.

As a nurse and wellness coach, I’ve seen this pattern repeatedly: women blaming themselves for low energy instead of asking why their energy is low in the first place. So let’s uncover what’s really going on behind that constant tiredness.

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Why Am I So Tired? My Journey From Exhausted To Energized and The Playbook I Wish I’d Had.
Melanie Gray Ph.D, RN Melanie Gray Ph.D, RN

Why Am I So Tired? My Journey From Exhausted To Energized and The Playbook I Wish I’d Had.

Have you ever sat in your car before work, too exhausted to open the door? I have. At 42, I was a nurse leader, educator, wife, and friend—but I was running on fumes. Coffee, weekends, even vacations couldn’t touch the bone-deep exhaustion that left me foggy, weepy, and questioning what was wrong with me.

What I discovered wasn’t laziness, weakness, or “just stress.” It was a combination of perimenopause, burnout, hormone imbalances, and nutrient deficiencies. And once I started treating myself like a patient I loved, everything began to change.

In this new article, I share the turning point in my journey, what actually worked, and the framework I now use to help other women rebuild their energy and confidence.

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